About Us

Our Vision

At Social Butterfly our mission is to make a difference in the lives of the women of today. We hope to create a space where women can create, engage, grow and learn from one another. We believe in supporting and empowering one another because together we can do GREAT things!

In Loving Memory Tabatha Melchor, 1969-2014
In Loving Memory Tabatha Melchor, 1969-2014

A Message from the Founder

This page was created In loving memory of my sister, Tabatha, who lost her battle with Lupus in 2014. It was one of the hardest losses I’ve had to endure in my lifetime. Her passing united my family to come together and be #TabbyStrong for one another. It truly brought the women of our blended family to become one. With Tabatha's memory and spirit in mind, my niece and I initially created this page to bring more women together and honor her legacy. We also wanted to bring awareness to lupus for those who still battle this autoimmune disease.

The national symbol for lupus is a Butterfly & the color purple so we thought the name "Social Butterfly" would be a great representation of the incredible woman, mother, grandmother, sister, & aunt that she was. My sister, Tabatha, would light up a room the moment she walked in. She was very outgoing, and always had a positive outlook on life.  Perhaps the butterfly is proof that you can go through a great deal of darkness, yet become something beautiful.

Meet the Team

"When women support each other, incredible things happen."

Meet the creators, bloggers, visionaries and total Mom bosses behind Social Butterfly!

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Victorilla Castillo


A single mom to a growing boy, Victoria works in the corporate world, but had a vision to create a community where women could create, engage, & grow together. From there, Social Butterfly was born. Along with her Team, she is ready to inspire & encourage with tips on beauty, health, motherhood, travel, & everything in between! 

“There is no limit to what we, as women, can accomplish.”

- Michelle Obama


Risa Garcia

Founding Member

Risa is a full-time work from home mom with three beautiful daughters ages 5, 4 and 2. If she had to descibes her life in two words it would be: beautiful, hot mess! She's a proud Latina originally from the Rio Grande Valley in Texas and now lives in a Houston suburb.  She never shies away from the struggles that life brings, but hopes to offer positive tips to get through the storms that come our way. 

"At the end of the day, we can endure much more than we think we can."

- Frida Kahlo


Sandra Hernandez

Founding Member

Sandra, known as "Sandy" to most, lives in Harlingen, Texas. She is married to her high school sweetheart and has 3 children ages 12, 9, and 3. She's a personal trainer and fitness "guru" who has been working in the field for over 6 years. She'll be sharing tips on fitness and workouts along with tips on owning and operating a business.

“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.”

- Proverbs 31:25


Mari Garcia

Founding Member

Mari is a SAHM/Small Business owner with her Husband.  Originally a small town girl from Port Isabel, TX, she now lives in San Antonio, TX with her family. She enjoys indulging her creative side with photography, DIY projects, cooking/baking and has a passion for fashion. She hopes to help create a space where women can share, grow and learn from one another.

"She believed she could, so she did."

- R.S. Grey


Leslie Davalos

Founding Member

Leslie is a mother of two extremely active, tough little boys ages 8 & 4 years. As a working Mom, she knows what it is like to juggle motherhood, work, school and be a wife. She hopes to help create a place of happiness, peace, and free hugs!

“Be a first rate version of yourself , not a second rate version of someone else”

- Judy Garland